The Golden Bachelorette: Contestant Faces Backlash Over Restraining Order

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Disney’s “The Golden Bachelorette” stars Jonathan, Pascal, Pablo, Gregg, Jordan, David, Charles, R.J., Gil, Michael, Bill, Guy, Chock, Gary, Keith, Ken, Bob, Mark, Charles, Jack, Dan, Kim, Christopher, and Thomas. (Image Credit: Disney/Ricky Middlesworth)

A contestant on the popular reality dating show The Golden Bachelorette has faced backlash after it was revealed that his ex-girlfriend filed a temporary restraining order against him. Gil Ramirez, a 60-year-old educator, was given a rose on the show’s premiere and has been appearing regularly.

According to court documents obtained by People magazine, Ramirez’s ex-girlfriend alleged that he engaged in a pattern of harassment, including repeated unwanted contact via phone, text, and video. She also claimed that he showed up at places she frequented.

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The restraining order was initially granted but was later dismissed without prejudice after Ramirez failed to appear at a scheduled hearing. The order couldn’t be served on him, ultimately leading to the dismissal.

The revelation of the restraining order is likely to lead to increased scrutiny of the show’s producers and their vetting process. In response, the show’s producers are expected to use selective editing to minimize Ramirez’s on-screen presence and downplay his role in the competition.

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The incident raises questions about the show’s vetting process and the potential risks associated with featuring contestants with controversial pasts.

The Golden Bachelorette airs on Wednesdays at 8:00 PM on ABC.

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